Frugal First Friday
Nov. 7th, 2025 11:36 am
We had the discussion, and far and away the majority of commenters said they wanted these posts to continue on a monthly basis. So...Welcome to Frugal First Friday! This is a monthly forum post to encourage people to share tips on saving money, especially but not only by doing stuff yourself. A new post will be going up on the first Friday of each month, and will remain active until the next one goes up. Contributions will be moderated, of course.
There has been talk about releasing these posts in print format. In case that turns out to be worth pursuing, please note: if you comment on this or any future Frugal First Friday post, you are giving permission for that comment to be included in print or other editions. This means, for those of you into the legalese, that by posting something in the comment thread you are granting me non-exclusive reprint rights to your comment, and permitting me to transfer those to a publisher or other venue. Your contribution will have your name or internet handle attached, your choice.
I also have some simple rules to offer, which may change further as we proceed. One change from the earlier frame is that if you produce goods or services yourself, and would like to let readers know about them, you may post one (1) (yes, just one) comment per month letting people know, with a link to your website or other contact info. The other rules ought to be familiar by now.
Rule #1: this is a place for polite, friendly conversations about how to save money in difficult times. It's not a place to post news, views, rants, or emotional outbursts about the reasons why the times are difficult and saving money is necessary. Nor is it a place to use a money saving tip to smuggle in news, views, etc. I have a delete button and I'm not afraid to use it.
Rule #2: please give your tip a heading that explains briefly what it's about. Homemade Chicken Soup, Garden Containers, Cheap Attic Insulation, and Vinegar Cleans Windows are good examples of headings. That way people can find the things that are relevant for them. If you don't put a heading on your tip it will be deleted.
Rule #3: don't post anything that would amount to advocating criminal activity. Any such suggestions will not be put through.
Rule #4: don't post LLM ("AI") generated content, and don't bring up the subject unless you're running a homemade LLM program on your own homebuilt, steam-powered server farm.
With that said, have at it!
Books (and prophecies) for sale
Date: 2025-11-07 04:54 pm (UTC)I write books. (Gosh, who'd have thought?) You can get them from a great many sources, but the one that benefits me most is my site on Bookshop.org, which sells books at a nice discount but also kicks a little back to me. Might be worth considering.
Also, I publish my political astrology predictions on Patreon and SubscribeStar. (It's the same predictions on each and I get the same returns from them, so take your pick.)
Thank you for considering these!
Weird of Hali is delightful
Date: 2025-11-10 07:46 pm (UTC)A couple months ago my eldest daughter said she wished there was a fantasy book with a young female protagonist that contained zero love interest. When you casually mentioned the protagonist of "Weird of Hali: Kingsport" fit the bill, I bought it and read it, and passed it on to my daughter. No word yet (teens can be very dubious of adult-recommended novels...) but I've read five of the WOH books so far.
They're great! The characters actually go places and have adventures. I love seeing the New England and New York locations I'm so familiar with portrayed with a Lovecraftian tint. And the various protagonists of each book have appropriate experiences true to their character and station in life.
The books have led to endless jokes from my husband about how I'm sprouting tentacles.
Just one question--I've been buying them on Bookshop, but not directly from your store. Do you get more benefit if I buy them from your page directly, or does Bookshop benefit you no matter what?
--Ms. Krieger
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Date: 2025-11-07 05:21 pm (UTC)Especially with Black Friday sales, look at the model numbers on the price reduced products and compare them to regular products. You may notice a slight difference. This indicates the manufacturer is shipping a different (inferior?) model exclusively for the sale -- the real bargain may be paying full price for a full quality product some other time!
Remember: everything on the shelf is always "for sale." When things are "on sale" its a promotion for the store. If you're spending your whole wallet on "saving" with sales, not a dime is going to hit your savings account!
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Date: 2025-11-09 05:24 pm (UTC)Would you buy the product anyway, without the coupon? If not, ask yourself why you need the product because you're saving 50 cents.
Sales are more complex. Everything is for sale but the prices will vary. This is where background knowledge and paying attention come in.
As per Barbara Salsbury and "Cut Your Grocery Bills in Half" (1983) and Amy Dacyczyn, make a price book. This is a small notebook where you jot down all your regular purchases and their regular prices; i.e. what you pay when there is no discount tag on the shelf and it's not in the advert.
Read the grocery flier every week. Is the price lower than the usual price? If it is, then the item is actually on sale.
How much is the discount? 10%? 15%? Buy One, Get One Free? Use coupons (assuming the item is worth buying in the first place) only in conjunction with real sales.
Grocery stores run regular sales timed with season of the year, holidays, and manufacturers' promotions. A price book -- and it will take several years of work to get a fully-fleshed out, detailed price book! -- will tell you if the sale price is worth stocking up.
If it is, stock up! Store those products on YOUR shelves in your pantry (cool, dry, airy, and in the dark) and shop YOUR pantry.
If the discount isn't a discount, you will know because of your price book.
Over the years, you may use a price book less because you become very familiar with your regular grocery store. Or not! It all depends.
But if you don't keep track of prices somehow, you won't know if a sale is really a sale.
And, if a product is Buy One, Get One Free (BOGOF) TAKE BOTH ITEMS! BOGOF is NOT a 50% discount. The first item is full price. The second item is free. You'd be shocked at how many customers only take one item of a BOGOF deal. Cashiers tell me this all the time.
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From: (Anonymous) - Date: 2025-12-02 08:02 pm (UTC) - Expandrights to content
Date: 2025-11-07 05:50 pm (UTC)This means, for those of you into the legalese, that by posting something in the comment thread you are granting me non-exclusive reprint rights to your comment, and permitting me to transfer those to a publisher or other venue. Your contribution will have your name or internet handle attached, your choice.
You could at some future time transfer, that is, sell, my, ahem, snippets of deathless prose, to some yet to be named publisher and that publisher could then sell on to some other entity for God only knows what purposes? Do I have that right?
I have found this forum most valuable; thank you for maintaining it. I think in future, I will be posting here as anonymous only.
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Date: 2025-11-07 06:00 pm (UTC)Sibscriptions
Date: 2025-11-07 05:55 pm (UTC)Every time you want to take out a subscription, consider the following: How much will the subscription cost me over 10 years? An example: You want to watch soccer and are willing to pay €50 for a streaming provider (which is now a realistic price in Germany): In this case, you would have to pay €6,000 over 10 years. For that money, you could buy a small car or who knows how much worth of work materials and tools for a garden. Now think about what is more valuable to you and imagine the financial pain of having to pay that €6,000 all at once. The thing is, the pain is actually there for your account when you sign up for a subscription, but because of your short-term thinking monkey brain, you don't notice it because €50 seems like a small amount to you.
Then, in the next step, think about how you can satisfy your desire for soccer without paying for a subscription. One suggestion would be to go to a bar for the important games. There, you drink 2 or 3 beers, which you would have drunk at home on the couch anyway. They may have additional costs of €10, which means you have saved €40. But instead of sitting alone in your living room, you've had a sociable evening and haven't put any money into a corrupt industry, but into your local pub.
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Date: 2025-11-07 08:09 pm (UTC)Another time was a firewall service and they discontinued the "lifetime" offer. I did some research and it turned out that, legally, the expectation of "lifetime" was a few years
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Date: 2025-11-07 06:36 pm (UTC)I think that maybe this blog might be the beginnings of "America at 32.81 per day". That number, is what $5.00 in 1970 is worth today.
In a way, what we are experiencing here in the USA is somewhat akin to the purpose of the "Europe" book mentioned above. We are going to a strange country and we aren't rich enough to enjoy the "grand tour" that the PMC are straining to keep.
I will mostly be posting on essentials. Food and heat. I think that once a month is plenty.
Yay! Online classes at your local library
Date: 2025-11-07 06:38 pm (UTC)Feel free to use my posts for a future frugal book. I already published my thrift and sustainability book, Fed, Safe, and Sheltered (https://peschelpress.com/fed-safe-and-sheltered/) and will not be publishing another general topic book.
I feel VERY strongly that more people would be thrifty if they felt more affirmed by someone, somewhere who doesn't call them a cheapskate. Thrift really can save lives.
On to my tip:
Your public library offers MANY services, including ones you may not be aware of.
My library -- for free!!!! -- provides access to Gale Education online courses. The course range is vast beyond imagining. Want to take physics? German instruction? How to use Instagram? Write a short story? Write a grant proposal? Run a small business?
Gale online courses come in an endless variety.
They are expensive if you sign up directly with Gale. BUT, if your library provides them for free, like mine does, you can continue your education at your leisure at home for no money.
Ask at your library if this option is available. If it is, you can take that basic bookkeeping class or business for dummies or whatever strikes your fancy.
As always, you get out of an online class what you put into it. If you don't do the work, you're wasting your time. If you do the assignments and the work, you'll learn new and useful lessons.
My offers: blessings and divinations
Date: 2025-11-07 07:08 pm (UTC)Since plugs for one's own services are allowed, I'll go ahead:
I perform a (free) blessing each Wednesday in which I bless everybody who has signed up for the current week - a general blessing, and if requested I include a specific purpose, too.
I also offer (paid) divinations with JMG's Sacred Geometry Oracle, which lends itself exceedingly well to sorting out complex situations.
Both offers can be found on my website The Hidden Things, by clicking on the respective links in the top menu. Blessings and divination are ways to improve one's life and to help with important decisions, respectively, and could thus be considered to be a contribution to living frugally... ;-)
Thanks for considering them, and I hope everybody is having a good week,
Milkyway
Holiday Food Shopping
Date: 2025-11-08 12:25 am (UTC)Re: Holiday Food Shopping
Date: 2025-11-08 09:15 pm (UTC)Tip: if you see a sale like this, be there when the store opens or as soon after as possible. The store may not have a large quantity on hand.
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From:Rabbits as Currency
Date: 2025-11-08 05:17 pm (UTC)We live in a densely-populated rural area. We have a small farm and raise meat rabbits. We have started to pay for milling services, some carpentry jobs and wild-caught fish with rabbit.
In the butcher shop in town, rabbit is going for $16 Canadian a pound. We do not charge that much and we have people lining up to buy or trade for our home-slaughtered rabbit meat for pet food only of course. Anything else would be illegal here in the Great White North.
The rabbits cost us very little money and not a great deal of time each day. They are quiet, gentle and easy to work with. We put dampened spoiled hay or wood shavings under their cages to absorb all the urine and feces. This keeps the barn smelling fresh and keeps the rabbits healthy. Ammonia gives animals pneumonia. This manure is great on our gardens.
When we slaughter, the waste goes into the compost and is returned to the soil. We also save treats for our resident ravens and the cats eat a lot of rabbit meat which keeps them healthy and away from the vet. I wonder if the prevalence of kidney failure in cats is due to the unnatural cat food they are given?
I do hope some of you will consider raising a few rabbits as they are a very tasty, wholesome meat and enrich your garden soil, eat up the outer leaves of cabbages, gnaw spent broccoli plants to nothing and love to eat rose prunings. They are also an interesting new form of currency.
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Date: 2025-11-08 06:47 pm (UTC)When I was raising a small herd of grass-fed beef, the single largest cost (and the greatest stress for the animals) was the requirement that they be trucked to and be slaughtered in a USDA-approved slaughterhouse, rather than on site.
I never acted on this, but my curmudgeonly marketing idea was a brand of farm-processed beef called "Not Legal for Human Consumption." The video ad campaign would feature me, the farmer, enjoying a juicy steak and explaining why I and my family were the only humans legally permitted to eat it. (And anyone's pets, of course.) Wink, wink.
I wish I'd done it. If only as a nod to Joel Salatin, who wrote the book titled "Everything I Want To Do is Illegal."
*Ochre Harebrained Curmudgeon*
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Date: 2025-11-08 08:57 pm (UTC)I know dollar stores aren't the best when it comes to conditions of labor environment etc, but so often the things I'd buy elsewhere are made in china anyway and for all I know could be made in the same factory. Not always true, and that is an issue. I try to avoid buying things I won't need for a while and might not use.
cabbage is useful
Date: 2025-11-08 09:05 pm (UTC)I like it just steamed a little in the microwave. Fast and easy to add to whatever else you've cooked. I also like it cut into long strips stirfried with carrots, onions, egg soy sauce and ginger, and served with rice. Generally,I'm still figuring out what to do with cabbage so that it is actively good instead of meh in taste more often.
Does anyone have favorite cabbage dishes to share?
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Date: 2025-11-08 10:02 pm (UTC)Thin strips of cabbage and onion fried in butter (with a touch of some oil to avoid burning) until nice and a little golden brown and then mixed in with cooked egg noodles. Salt, Pepper, if you like - caraway seeds or poppy seeds to taste. Very good comfort food.
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Date: 2025-11-08 09:11 pm (UTC)Frugal
Date: 2025-11-08 09:15 pm (UTC)First freeze preparations
Date: 2025-11-08 09:30 pm (UTC)If you have a basement or garage to store the hoses in, do so. They will last longer if you keep them out of the sun when you aren't using them.
If you have enough space with the right amount of light, you can dig up and divide ornamental flowers like geraniums and impatiens that are perennial in warm climates and plant them into pots to over-winter in your house. I kept a geranium plant going for years this way. If you have excellent light in a large-enough space, you can pot-up a pepper plant and over-winter it indoors as well. However, it takes a lot of light, more than I had, and you'll need to watch out for aphids, which can multiply rapidly on pepper plants indoors (they did on mine).
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Date: 2025-11-10 11:33 pm (UTC)Dental cleanings at teh dental hygienist school
Date: 2025-11-09 05:46 am (UTC)A few years ago, the charges were higher and you had to go there multiple times, and they were having trouble getting patients for the students to work on because of their policies, so I was happy to hear that they had made changes. Now, a new patient or someone who has not had a cleaning in years would still need to go twice, once for a treatment plan and xrays, then back, but I was able to just make one visit there this time.
I paid $35 as I was able to forward xrays from a dentist that were recent enough. And the student did a great job. This was a savings of $115 or more. They would have done a flouride treatment, but I opted out.
I would recommend checking out this option in your area, they need the patients to work on, and it is a cost savings to go there.
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Date: 2025-11-13 12:25 pm (UTC)In the Steps of the Fool: Course on Magic and Divination for Sale
Date: 2025-11-09 02:35 pm (UTC)For the past few months I have been giving a course were we walk through the philosophy and the basic methodologies of practice of magic and divination and then we hit the ground running by putting that to practice in group readings with a focus on intuition training rather than memorization. We also start to flex and explore this area of human experience that Dolores Ashcroft-Nowicki termed "The Highways of the Mind" and others have called the astral plane. That is, the larger space entered through the hidden powers of the mind with the aid of magic. In particular we will explore an ancient variant of a place called The Observatory, were we will interact with the elemental forces and link it with the intelligences of the Tarot to have a deep understanding and integration of the elements as well of the cards as living and intelligent points of consciousness. By the end of the course we will discuss practical magic to put the tools to use for personal transformation, both internal and external and to the service of others under the guidance of the Divine. The course covers my interpretation of the work of John Gilbert, in particular The Doors of Tarot, The Tree of Spirit, and others, as well as the topics that Dolores discusses in her books on magic and the art of pathworking. All this with a side of the material I have received from a Dion Fortune descended school called La Fraternidad del Círculo Dorado, established by Dolores as a sister school of hers. The class includes monthly written lessons by me, we will meet weekly and it will last about 6 months. You can expect to put 30 minutes to an hour of daily work that includes ritual, meditation, divination, journaling and healing. There is also a forum where you can ask questions and interact with other participants. An english based version of the class will start in late February. If you are interested, here is an interest form with more information. If you have been interested in a flavor of the magic discussed here, or would like to benefit from going through the material under supervision and a group setting, this might be of your liking. People coming from here have a discount, of course.
I also give Tarot readings followed by simple magical advice regarding the topics discussed in it, for which you could send me a personal message through here, or sending an email to gustella.adrienne@gmail.com
Thank you and may you have a blessed day,
--Augusto
Ceiling Fans Heat Too!
Date: 2025-11-09 06:44 pm (UTC)Re: Ceiling Fans Heat Too!
Date: 2025-11-09 08:58 pm (UTC)Since I have had alot of free wood for the last few years, it has not made it up the priority list.
But, I totally agree, especially in a house like mine with a realy high ceiling, it would keep more heat down where I sit on the couch, one of my offspring has such a ceiling fan and swears by it. Says it also makes air currents thru the entire house to some degree as the air is all connected. That household also heats exclusively with wood, like my house, but has a hallway to get heat down, unlike mine, and buys firewood each year. That house has a normal height ceiling, but still swears by the ceiling fan ( and this also means they can get to the ceiling fan with a normal sized ladder, unlike mine which would need a 12 or 14 foot ladder
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Date: 2025-11-11 11:43 pm (UTC)And I noted that in a pocket notebook with notes on the cost of the rest of the items - not changed from the last time, so far.
So, thanks for the suggestion.
The Grey Badger
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Date: 2025-11-12 05:29 pm (UTC)Plastic Film on Windows
Date: 2025-11-12 12:17 pm (UTC)I've looked into weather stripping, too and I can't believe how expensive it is.
Thanks.
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From:Pennies
Date: 2025-11-13 06:26 pm (UTC)That aside, what ideas does anyone have for using accumulated pennies? I put mine in small and medium glass jars to use for pattern weights. No need to buy the expensive fancy ones from sewing supply stores or even make a special trip to the hardware store for washers.
Pennies in large jars might make good book ends.
Any other ideas?
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Date: 2025-11-14 04:22 pm (UTC)Like land, coins are tangible assets. We may see a time when it costs one silver dime to pay for a haircut.
frugal sources of gemstones for magical work
Date: 2025-11-16 02:12 am (UTC)Discussion has been held several times on Magic Mondays as to sourcing gemstones for natural magic, most recently https://ecosophia.dreamwidth.org/349237.html?thread=58080053&style=mine#cmt58080053
Lab-made aka "synthetic" gems are available for less than precious natural stone.
Further, it may not be well known that the great majority of minerals of which precious stones are a rarified subset are not of gemstone quality. Be they opaque, or cracked, or lacking the colour or clarity desired for jewellery purposes, they are still considered emeralds, diamonds or whatever.
These can be bought very cheaply on ordinary auction type sites as well as from mineral dealers; searches for "rough" or "specimen" and the name of the stone will yield a huge number of results.
And they can be very attractive, especially natural sapphire crystals.
For example, this week I found a seller of beads made of low grade precious stones where a necklace-length strand of rubies cost only $14.
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From:An up-to-date Chromium-based web browser compatible with Windows XP, 2003, Vista, 7, 8.x
Date: 2025-11-22 04:48 pm (UTC)Recently, I was unable to access my banking site as well as a music site where I sell an old-time album for a band I used to manage. The reason? My browser was "not supported" anymore on those sites because it needs ẃin 10 or 11 to be updated. I use win8.1 and am quite comfortable with it. Anyway, I searched for a free modern browser that was compatible with my older operating system, and found Supermium mentioned on a reddit post. Voila, it works and works well. Info from my old browser was exported and imported in very little time and I got on both sites with no problem. Put in an adblocker extension and I am good to go. I can use whatever search engine I want as well.
No more nags from sites that want me to upgrade, etc to be able to interact. Supermium is a drop-in replacement for Google Chrome with privacy and usability enhancements, optimized for legacy and modern Windows systems alike. No, I don't get money for recommending Supermium. Hope someone else will find it useful. https://win32subsystem.live/supermium/
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Date: 2025-11-22 06:08 pm (UTC)anything for Mac OS?
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Date: 2025-11-23 04:44 pm (UTC)https://windowsreport.com/best-browser-for-yosemite/
https://www.palemoon.org/download.shtml
https://www.maxthon.com/en
https://github.com/blueboxd/chromium-legacy
Good luck!