Estholes and Evangelists
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I'm thinking among other things about a guy I knew, normally thoughtful and courteous, who got talked by his wife into taking the current version of EST with her. (I think it's called Landmark Forum now, but it's the same schtick.) When he finished the training, he immediately spammed all his friends, including me, with this four-screen-long email that sounded like an advertising flyer. I emailed him back to warn him that somebody had hacked his email and was using it for spam.
He responded saying, no, it was him, and he just wanted to share with everybody how wonderful the training had been. I expressed a lack of enthusiasm, and he responded with baffled hurt -- why, everybody he knew was treating him as though he'd just started preaching to them about Jesus. I explained to him that this was basically what he'd done...and he literally couldn't hear it. No, the slick four-screen sales pitch he'd dumped on all his friends was just him expressing his enthusiasm, and why were we all being so mean? (In case you're wondering, no, our friendship didn't survive this.)
There was a term for such a person back in the day: "esthole." There were a lot of them, and they had exactly the same odd blinkered attitude toward their actions: fifteen-minute-long sales pitches for EST on every conceivable occasion, to every conceivable person, was just ordinary enthusiasm for something really wonderful, and why did everyone react so badly to it?
I got a corresponding situation over the last week on my blog, after posting something on the fallacy of insisting that a single diet or dietary theory was right for everyone. I was pleasantly surprised, I should note, by the way the vegans in my readership reacted to this; there were some raised hackles, to be sure, but I'd used veganism as an example in uncomplimentary ways, so by and large I didn't consider their reactions out of line. Nor did I field many long screeds about the evilly evil evilness of eating animal products. It seems possible, in fact, that the vegan movement may be getting over its awkward phase and achieving maturity, in which case it may be around for the long term.
No, the estholes this time were the fans of Weston A. Price, a Cleveland dentist from the early 20th century who came up with an elaborate dietary theory based on his research into traditional diets. It was the same behavior pattern as with my esthole (former) friend: the long comments all circling back to encomia of Weston A. Price and his theories, the insistence that anybody who didn't join them in singing hallelujas to WAP was being unreasonably hostile, and so on, ending in a habit I particularly detest -- the WAPpers on the list having lengthy conversations solely with each other, in which they loudly praised each other for glorifying WAP and took pot shots at those of us who weren't on the WAPper bandwagon. So I declared the subject closed and started deleting attempted posts, and immediately fielded thank you notes from a flurry of other readers who were as bored with the WAP evangelism as I was.
It's useful, mind you, to have advance warning of what the next big evangelical diet cult is likely to be, so I can systematically delete all attempts to proselytize for it on my blog, and take such other steps as one takes to deal with tiresome evangelists of every stripe. Still, it has me wondering: what is the state of mind that makes estholes and other evangelists so imperceptive? I suppose it's funny that somebody with Aspergers syndrome like me would be blinking in surprise at someone else's blindness to basic social courtesies, but there it is...
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Date: 2018-02-07 07:05 pm (UTC)The comments about diet and He-Whose-Name-I-Promise-Not-To-Mention certainly showed what a hot-button issue this was (even for you, our honored host). I have the book, liked it and it has a place on my groaning bookshelves but that’s all. ‘A’ place, not ‘THE’ place. It has its limitations like every other book that has even been written. Maybe you better steer clear of food for a while. There are plenty of other hot-button issues to be covered. It will be interesting to see the next topic that gets people foaming at the mouth.
JLfromNH
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Date: 2018-02-07 08:44 pm (UTC)Re: He-Whose-Name-Will-Not-Be-Mentioned
Date: 2018-02-08 12:19 am (UTC)Bad Latin aside, on to answer your question. I took the est training and am glad I did. As a person whose only previous experience of magical/spiritual principles was the falsity of patriarchal mind control masquerading as Christian love, the training had lid-lifting powers allowing many of us to peer into the workings of our own minds and hearts, like popping the hood on a car engine and seeing all the little whirligigs spinning ‘round.
What is the mindset of people who indulge in such delights as turning a firehose on their friends? Energy! Abundance! Freedom! Doing the training releases boo-koos of spiritual energy that has been locked away for years running dreary little scenarios, disempowering mental routines, and constricting habitual conditioning. Borrowing from another tradition, allow me to say, “Forgive them: they know not what they do.”
I never heard the word egregor until I read your blog, but in the training, I experienced the phenomenon and saw it in action as it facilitated people to recognize, confront and overcome their conditioning blocks. Afterwards, I enjoyed years worth of fellowship with others like me. We met voluntarily to discuss mundane life issues using the common experience, safe-space trust, and useful vocabulary that the training had instilled in us. These meetings were like spiritual support groups, helping one another dispassionately analyze and work through deeper layers of conditioning as they arose in later life. It was like being part of a Lodge or an Okinawan moai.
Though I personally derived a good deal of benefit from the training, I do not advocate for it. Evangelizing is like smallpox: religious innoculation or natural resistance makes one less likely to succumb. I admit to a gleeful and thoroughly ignoble wish that you should take it, chiefly because I like to imagine a practicing mage going mano-a-mano with the trainers. Spin ‘em on their ears like a 78 vinyl disc? It gives me the evil giggles.
The training was designed by a master marketer and it survives by using marketing techniques. High-pressure salesmanship is a time-honored means of boosting sports, war, fashion, Ponzi schemes like the stock market and many such fads. People fall for it. Time and again. Did not Jesus throw the money-changers out of the Temple? They, too, were sheltering under a great edifice not of their building.
But, you know, business is business. As long as people are culturally barred from experiencing spiritual growth by greedy patriarchal religious institutions and Cartesian distortions of reality, selling any kind of effective self-help magic will make money for someone. Like cheap fast-food and mallwarts, people need what they are selling. It may be distasteful to those who hunger for richer spiritual nourishment; but it is better than starving, I think. Sorry about your friend, though.
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Date: 2018-02-07 07:25 pm (UTC)Your question is certainly worth pondering. What comes to my mind is accounts from tales of faery wherein the humans are struck by glamour (or in USA, “glamor”, or in 1720s Scotland, “glamer” – “a sort of spell that would affect the eyesight of those afflicted, so that objects appear different than they actually are”). Of course, I am not saying that WAP was a faery or that he cast a spell on anyone, but if a diet (or a religion or cult) in some way has a life and power of its own, perhaps it is able to enchant those who fall within its orbit.
Ron M
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Date: 2018-02-07 07:58 pm (UTC)It also baffles me that they claim that WAP's theories aren't a diet. WAPF and PPF label certain categories of foods ("whole" foods, raw nuts and seeds, raw milk, etc) as good and others (polished grains, roasted nuts and seeds, pasteurized milk, etc) as bad; that's a DIET, y'all. It's a fairly broad one, but it's still a diet. The fact that the individual is allowed to pick and choose from among the approved foods doesn't make it not a diet --- Weight Watchers does that, and so do diets like veganism, Paleo, Whole30, and the officially recommended diets for diabetes, celiac disease, and heart disease.
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Date: 2018-02-07 08:47 pm (UTC)Blah.
a completely unique way of relating to food
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Date: 2018-02-07 08:48 pm (UTC)I have never been a dietary evangelist. I am prone to evangelism, though. When I was 17 I read Daniel Quinn's Ishmael books. For the next 5+ years I was an insufferable evangelist for Quinn's work and an obnoxious know it all. Give me a political, social, religious or personal issue, in any scale, and I'd some it for you in 2 words: Read Ishmael. I'd like to say that I then returned to normal, but that wouldn't be true. No, I just broadened my religious fervor to include the works of Derrick Jensen and others in the Neoprimitivist movement and eventually Kropotkin, Proudhon and finally Marx.
I think I am less evangelical now. Magical practice definitely helped, which leads me to wonder--
Regarding the cluelessnes of the evangelical... Do you suppose it's the same sort of thing that happens when a person possessed by a spirit can't remember what they said when the possession ends?
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Date: 2018-02-07 10:31 pm (UTC)Estholes et al
Date: 2018-02-07 09:05 pm (UTC)As an impressionable teenager in the 70s I almost got sucked into the EST experience. Fortunately my friends dissuaded me from it.
Kevin
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Date: 2018-02-07 10:33 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2018-02-07 10:58 pm (UTC)When I first moved to Berkeley I met many kinds of evangelicals-- ,Christian, Marxist,food, you name it..)
Some of them were otherwise intelligent beings.
At first I blamed whatever cult they were affiliated with-
-then, as I saw the pattern, I decided that;
"Fanaticism Causes brain Damage" Later, I saw a graffiti: "Zealousy=Submission"
I agree, they have surrendered their ability to think about at Least 'that' subject.
I think the mechanism Might be related to the one that 'falling in love' (with a new person) uses-
-It enables us to rapidly accept novel things
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Date: 2018-02-11 03:42 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2018-02-07 11:34 pm (UTC)I just wanted to add that in some cases the evangelism is not so much a product of suppressed dissatisfaction but of a simple ignorance. I've heard it called more than once "The Neophyte Syndrome" and I have experienced it first person when I got snapped out of my secular-materialist shell for the first time and discovered that the world is somewhat more interesting than I supposed. I didn't quite evangelise my new discovery but I certainly did annoy a few people back then more than once. It took me a while to figure it out that there is more than one way to explore the unseen and that the world is not just more interesting than I suppose, it's more interesting than anyone can possibly suppose. Before that I, well, went through a evangelical-neophyte phase that makes me shrug sometimes when I remember it. :}
And then there are people who just live to preach. Back in my Russian uni we had a philosophy teacher who used to be a Party leader back in USSR days. She was teaching Scientific Communism - the only subject that everyone had to study in every single soviet university. The only way to teach THAT for years was to have a evangelical conviction that it is true (or to be an alcoholic). When USSR collapsed, she swang all the way "out there" into theosophy, got her mind through a few books by Blavatsky and Roerich, and started teaching what she learned there repeating it nearly word to word on every single "philosophy" class she was running. She did it with the same conviction and the same (very typical) empty shine in her eyes that she had back in her Party leadership days. And it repelled all of us from anything esoteric for years after that.
So maybe (just maybe) that EST ex-friend of yours simply suffered from the Neophyte Syndrome? But I must confess, I don't know what EST and judging by the way it is mentioned I don't even want to know what it is. :-}
Cheers,
Ganesh Ubuntu
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Date: 2018-02-11 03:45 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2018-02-08 12:01 am (UTC)The ONE WAY - to nothingness.
I think Price did some useful empirical research on diet at probably the last point in time when it could be done. That he turned it into a diet is not surprising - that was what he set out to do. He was looking for something to help with the degeneration (dental carries and facialy deformities) he saw as a dentist that he believed was due to the massive change to processed food (white bread and sugar). At least that was what I got from his book.
When I got the cancer diagnosis the one thing I avoided was obsessing on searching for 'cancer' on the Intertubes. Sure I did a bit of searching main stream information and a few alternate sources. Took every thing with a cow lick sized grain of salt. Mostly it left me feeling my doctors had better track records than anything else I saw. They didn't claim to have all the answers. They didn't put down all of the alternatives but couldn't recommend any as better than a useful supplemental treatments. And a lot of the 'cure' treatments do make good supplemental support treatments for SOME people. Sure the Mayo Clinic might have saved more of my tongue but at what odds and what cost. As it was my retirement was eaten even with fairly good insurance. For me it's worked out fairly well after 9 years. Most even agree that medicine is at least as much magic as science.
John
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Date: 2018-02-08 01:32 am (UTC)Berne, et. al
Date: 2018-02-09 09:58 pm (UTC)One of the things we were being trained to do was avoid unconsciously imposing our own biases on people we were working with. A lot easier said than done!
The TA books are still useful as catalogs of problematic behaviors.
John Roth
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Date: 2018-02-08 01:36 am (UTC)JLfromNH
Can't shut up vs. Can't hear
Date: 2018-02-08 01:56 am (UTC)Master narratives are very attractive to a certain type of mind. Accept the basic premise and everything falls neatly into place--until reality throws up something that doesn't.
Rita Rippetoe
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Date: 2018-02-08 04:42 am (UTC)I seem to recall this happening a decade ago when Ron Paul became "Dr. Paul" (sometimes even "Dr. Ron Paul, M.D.").
Last year I started seeing "Dr. Peterson" for Jordan Peterson. His archrival Sam Harris, who has a Ph.D. in neuroscience, is not called "Dr. Harris" as far as I know...
And now, in your comments thread, we have "Dr. Price" for the discoverer of the One True Traditional Diet.
It seems like behavior more suitable for a deeply religious person than for a scientific rationalist, but what do I know. I also enjoyed the sectarian warfare between the Price Foundation and Prince-Pottenger, Inc.
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Date: 2018-02-11 03:55 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2018-02-08 09:19 am (UTC)That brings to mind two hypotheses (or possibly two ways of framing the same hypothesis). The first is that the people involved are just working in the Christian and/or Faustian frame and acting in accordance with that even if they've consciously rejected Christianity. The second is that stories are alive, want to be told, and that the evangelism is part of their replication process.
(voiceoftaredas - though I should probably get a new handle, I think my pompous streak got out of hand when making this one.)
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Date: 2018-02-08 06:34 pm (UTC)Terry Prachett said much the same thing about stories, and even proposed a Theory of Narrative Causality:
"Stories are important.
People think that stories are shaped by people. In fact, it’s the other way around.
Stories exist independently of their players. If you know that, knowledge is power.
Stories, great flapping ribbons of shaped space-time, have been blowing and uncoiling around the universe since the beginning of time. And they have evolved. The weakest have died and the strongest have survived, and they have grown fat on the retelling . . . stories, twisting and blowing through the darkness.
And their very existence overlays a faint but insistent pattern on the chaos that is history. Stories etch grooves deep enough for people to follow in the same way that water follows certain paths down a mountainside. And every time fresh actors tread the path of the story, the groove runs deeper.
This is called the theory of narrative causality and it means that a story, once started, takes a shape. It picks up all the vibrations of all the other workings of that story that have ever been.
This is why history keeps repeating all the time. [. . .]
Stories don’t care who takes part in them. All that matters is that the story gets told, that the story repeats. Or, if you prefer to think of it like this: stories are a parasitical life form, warping lives in the service only of the story itself."
(From his "Witches Abroad")
Pratchett wrote fantasy fiction, but his work is riddled with serious thought abot the nature of reality, and about magic.
And there is also Muriel Rukeyser's wonderful throw-away dictum in one of her poems:
"The universe is made of stories, not of atoms."
-- Robert Mathiesen
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Date: 2018-02-08 12:26 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2018-02-11 03:56 am (UTC)Cheech and Chong's Law of Evangelism
Date: 2018-02-08 04:17 pm (UTC)Most people who go seriously into the evangelism shtick of any flavor will tend to bounce around a bit. I tend to think that it is the evangelism itself that they find so pleasing. The actual belief system is actually secondary to the point. The evangelism is what provides the pleasure, along with the formation of a social bond with other folks who have led them/follow them in their current particular belief system.
Now, folks here might want to correct me on this particular source, but I do seem to remember that it was Cheech and Chong once stated:
"I used to be all f%$^&d-up on drugs, then I found Jesus, now I'm all f%$^&d-up on Jesus".
John-Michael, as an aside to an earlier correspondence, diet remains fairly similar, still feel OK, by wheat has found it's way back into the diet in the form of two pizza slices per week. I am coming to the conclusion that gluten-free pizza crust is an abomination.
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Date: 2018-02-09 04:58 am (UTC)Hah hah hah! In many ways I think that may be the Aspie’s dilemma: we (yup, I’m one too) are in several ways often MORE sensitive/courteous, sometimes to a fault, but the social system (psychological and otherwise) has branded our form of sensitivity as Not Normal and therefore Not Courteous. The entire Aspie branding is problematic, which is why I suspect DSM-5 got rid of it and just lumped us under the Autistic label.
As per your question about what makes Estholes and other evangelists so imperceptive, my hypothesis is that they are coming from a viewpoint that says We Are All Alike, and since they have their particular infection of evangelical fervor they assume/know everybody else does too. Hmmm, being an Aspie tends to slam you up against the wall of “wow, I’m not like everybody else” at least occasionally, and I suppose those more typical evangelistic folks have not had their nose bruised on that particular wall very often.
Best regards!
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Date: 2018-02-11 04:05 am (UTC)Ah yes, those sorts...
Date: 2018-02-09 08:15 am (UTC)I reckon the less something works in reality, and the more it promises to work, the louder the screeching from the believers seems to be.
Mate, those true believers bore the daylights out of me, and on hearing them I start thinking about parsnips instead. Not sure what that means!
I am a self confessed music geek and the only thing I know about EST is that the delightful band REM sang about it in their very sad, but outstanding song: "Country Feedback". I'd have to suggest that the cheeky scamps weren't too polite about the reference either. After hearing those lyrics I was on my guard against the true believers noise... Their braying does not influence me.
Cheers
Chris
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Date: 2018-02-11 04:14 am (UTC)I will say that I think probably everybody would be better off avoiding white sugar (HFCS is even worse), white flour, white rice, and commercial vegetable oils (polyunsaturated oils in clear plastic bottles become rancid quickly). But even I make an exception for pasta. I've tried the whole-grain pasta and it's....not good. And people who are passionate about Italian-American cuisine will think you're a big jerk for using the whole-wheat kind of pasta!
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