I used diaper service diapers for my three in the late 70s early 80s. At that time disposables were so inferior that I didn't even consider them, so the question was between home washing and diaper service. I read a book on baby care and expenses by a home economist who calculated that between cost of heating water, wear on machine, extra rinses, detergent, drying costs and original purchase, diaper service was more economical. I don't know how those figures work out now with all the changes in energy cost, more water efficient washers, and so forth. It is possible that Consumer Reports has covered the subject.
When mine were little the basic diaper was a rectangle with extra layers down the center. The user had to fold the sides and ends to fit the infant, changing the folds as the child grew--also putting the extra material in the front for boys. There are now different shapes and styles of cloth diapers on the market as well as different styles of waterproof pants to protect outer clothing. If you and your wife don't know any recent mothers, I would suggest contacting Le Leche League or some other new mother's group to get input from those who are using the newer diapers. Be aware that some members of Le Leche are complete breastfeeding fanatics. I have heard of women with bilateral mastectomies being urged to "just try"--insane. They weren't that strange when I was a member.
Good luck and remember that you, your wife and your child are the ones who will live with your decisions. And don't be too conscientious to let convenience be a factor--time and energy for new parents is in short supply and you won't save the planet if you let yourselves be run into the ground. I will note that modern disposables are very effective at guarding against diaper rash because they really pull the wetness away from the infant's skin. Be prepared for the pediatrician to recommend disposables if your child has very sensitive skin and develops a rash--he or she isn't just being a shill for the manufacturers. I was amazed to see this with my grandchildren.
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Diapers
Date: 2024-05-31 09:50 pm (UTC)When mine were little the basic diaper was a rectangle with extra layers down the center. The user had to fold the sides and ends to fit the infant, changing the folds as the child grew--also putting the extra material in the front for boys. There are now different shapes and styles of cloth diapers on the market as well as different styles of waterproof pants to protect outer clothing. If you and your wife don't know any recent mothers, I would suggest contacting Le Leche League or some other new mother's group to get input from those who are using the newer diapers. Be aware that some members of Le Leche are complete breastfeeding fanatics. I have heard of women with bilateral mastectomies being urged to "just try"--insane. They weren't that strange when I was a member.
Good luck and remember that you, your wife and your child are the ones who will live with your decisions. And don't be too conscientious to let convenience be a factor--time and energy for new parents is in short supply and you won't save the planet if you let yourselves be run into the ground. I will note that modern disposables are very effective at guarding against diaper rash because they really pull the wetness away from the infant's skin. Be prepared for the pediatrician to recommend disposables if your child has very sensitive skin and develops a rash--he or she isn't just being a shill for the manufacturers. I was amazed to see this with my grandchildren.
Blessed be,
Rita