my question: if he's still nauseous when he comes home tomorrow, can you put medications like our ivermectin and fenben, rectally (as with a bulb), and have them absorb? does anyone know?
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so James is on hospice in the hospital while i get the house ready for the hospital bed. they couldn't leave their hands off him, so while i got him to eat an entire 4-egg scramble with cheese, brussel sprouts, spinach and garlic on sunday, he was the next day distended from me feeding him when he's constipated.
they took the faster breathing as a sign of cancer pain so they started giving him morphine and then adavan and some other stuff. his brother and i say NOOOO! but they don't care. we had to spend hours begging for fluids but their "comfort care" has them withholding liquids while giving whatever drugs THEY ,the "experts," deem necessary.
y'all, this system is going DOWN.
so while a couple of us quietly thought he just looked like he was sleeping, they had to intervene so that he does seem as if he's dying. the morphine makes you nauseous so now he won't swallow, which conforms to their "he's dying! cannot swallow!" narrative, when the other nurses said he COULD SWALLOW and that's why they doubted the docs' idea of James' imminent demise.
so when the one nurse got a gold star for noticing him breathing heavier from what i insisted was constipation, they brushed that aside for HE'S NEAR DEATH! WITHIN HOURS!
so the apartment's not ready but i don't care. Mikey, his brother, and i are just about getting him HOME.
they have "tranqued" up James and now he's too nauseous and drugged up to care. they've stopped feeding him when i just fed him a huge Easter breakfast... THEY MAKE THEIR PREDICTIONS OF DEATH REAL!
and even Mikey now admits he thinks they keep messing with us (James has to leave NOW! or you pay $1000 a day! Medi-cal has run out!... or the next day NO Hurry! Relax.... then MUST LEAVE NOW!), and the doctors are like children. when they lie they say we were "mis-communicating."
i see how covid 19 debacle happened all over the place. they all consider each other well-respected "experts" (read: career networking) and they have no honor or think for themselves. they've taken the liberal do-good ideal and cracked its neck, leaving it to flail about in the corner.
thanks again for being a touchstone, all of you here, to Reality. i could not have navigated this insane medical hell without the tutoring/tutelage of many here.
and the thing is, they only know how to layer DRUGS. there's nothing about sleep, eating well...
OH! the nurse who liked me and told me they had "notes" on us all and i was the "non-committal girlfriend," she said they don't have full-fat milk for James because they're all about low-fat/no fat.
i asked WHY? when it's so much better tasting? she agreed... and then she leaned in closer to me and said, "the less fat you have the less likely it is to spoil."
meaning that it seems she's saying the medical industry advocates the low-fat/no-fat diet because it comports with their bottom LINE.
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my question: if he's still nauseous when he comes home tomorrow, can you put medications like our ivermectin and fenben, rectally (as with a bulb), and have them absorb? does anyone know?
i figured i'd ask here in case the lack of morphine doesn't fix the issue and i'd be ready to switch, because i wasn't able to get his secret medication inside of him today.
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Date: 2024-04-03 04:38 am (UTC)my question: if he's still nauseous when he comes home tomorrow, can you put medications like our ivermectin and fenben, rectally (as with a bulb), and have them absorb? does anyone know?
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so James is on hospice in the hospital while i get the house ready for the hospital bed.
they couldn't leave their hands off him, so while i got him to eat an entire 4-egg scramble with cheese, brussel sprouts, spinach and garlic on sunday, he was the next day distended from me feeding him when he's constipated.
they took the faster breathing as a sign of cancer pain so they started giving him morphine and then adavan and some other stuff. his brother and i say NOOOO! but they don't care. we had to spend hours begging for fluids but their "comfort care" has them withholding liquids while giving whatever drugs THEY ,the "experts," deem necessary.
y'all, this system is going DOWN.
so while a couple of us quietly thought he just looked like he was sleeping, they had to intervene so that he does seem as if he's dying. the morphine makes you nauseous so now he won't swallow, which conforms to their "he's dying! cannot swallow!" narrative, when the other nurses said he COULD SWALLOW and that's why they doubted the docs' idea of James' imminent demise.
so when the one nurse got a gold star for noticing him breathing heavier from what i insisted was constipation, they brushed that aside for HE'S NEAR DEATH! WITHIN HOURS!
so the apartment's not ready but i don't care. Mikey, his brother, and i are just about getting him HOME.
they have "tranqued" up James and now he's too nauseous and drugged up to care. they've stopped feeding him when i just fed him a huge Easter breakfast... THEY MAKE THEIR PREDICTIONS OF DEATH REAL!
and even Mikey now admits he thinks they keep messing with us (James has to leave NOW! or you pay $1000 a day! Medi-cal has run out!... or the next day NO Hurry! Relax.... then MUST LEAVE NOW!), and the doctors are like children. when they lie they say we were "mis-communicating."
i see how covid 19 debacle happened all over the place. they all consider each other well-respected "experts" (read: career networking) and they have no honor or think for themselves. they've taken the liberal do-good ideal and cracked its neck, leaving it to flail about in the corner.
thanks again for being a touchstone, all of you here, to Reality. i could not have navigated this insane medical hell without the tutoring/tutelage of many here.
and the thing is, they only know how to layer DRUGS. there's nothing about sleep, eating well...
OH! the nurse who liked me and told me they had "notes" on us all and i was the "non-committal girlfriend," she said they don't have full-fat milk for James because they're all about low-fat/no fat.
i asked WHY? when it's so much better tasting? she agreed... and then she leaned in closer to me and said, "the less fat you have the less likely it is to spoil."
meaning that it seems she's saying the medical industry advocates the low-fat/no-fat diet because it comports with their bottom LINE.
--
my question: if he's still nauseous when he comes home tomorrow, can you put medications like our ivermectin and fenben, rectally (as with a bulb), and have them absorb? does anyone know?
i figured i'd ask here in case the lack of morphine doesn't fix the issue and i'd be ready to switch, because i wasn't able to get his secret medication inside of him today.
erika