Toward Ecosophy

Really serious question - I know someone who came out of a disastrously abusive childhood and young adulthood with the gut deep feeling that she was worthless, and who is now on the brink of death. The head of our Circle, J, who has a gift as a mind healer, had been working with her for years, and helped her to the point where she should accept the drawings he was teaching her to do as therapy, and to the point where she could stand up and speak her mind boldly at science fiction club meetings, but she apparently had relapses, and when J called to tell me she was on the brink of death, he also let me know she had relapsed into the self-hatred. The question is - even suppose she has a gentle passing if this illness proves fatal, what will happen to her on the other side, going in feeling like that?

Thanks,

Dijon Curmudgeonly Shrew