Toward Ecosophy

Outer 7 marriage feels very familiar. That's how I've been living with a man who's added his 5 to my 11 for a long time. I am relieved to read the description of it. I am not the only one in the whole wide world after all. I owe a lot to this marriage. I've acquired a lot of friends, interests, and connections. I need warmth and human interaction. I've got it (just not from my spouse) while keeping the family for my children intact. If it's not for my difficult marriage I would be stuck in 2, just like my mother. Life forced me to become 11. I love my life. I am living a good life despite an unhappy marriage.
Kirsten