Toward Ecosophy

Thank you, it does give me comfort. And it is nice to know that someone else is/was struggling with the same things. I could have written exactly your words. I bite my tongue regularly rather than say something I know is true, that a loved one is going to find out is true, but won't be able to admit it, or worse will hate me when it becomes obvious that what I said is true. Absolutely as you say, psychology 101. And nowadays, what is done is done and my saying anything will not change it. So the furthest I go is, hey are you taking Vitamin D? It might make you feel better. Have you tried Natto? It is good for your health... Every once in a while, someone listens. So that is hopeful.