Perspective .............like, bending over backwards to be reasonable.....?

well maybe but personally I think my neighbour who is coughing deeply and regularly and sounds like Florence Nightingale
should be taking care of her, one on one, PROBABLY didn't have the right perspective when she got those sharp thin needles delivering
skull-jello, or whatever it was, into her veins......

So how can I add perspective to my neighbour's 'no perspective?'