Okay, to some extent you're trying to walk north and south at the same time -- you can't achieve success on the material plane and transcend the material plane simultaneously, because success on any plane requires a deeper engagement with that plane!

My suggestion is to relax, focus on establishing a good relation with the spiritual planes, and let your higher self and the spiritual forces that guide it do the job of helping your finish your journey on this plane, rather than trying to do it for them.