It's just one of those things. There seem to be a lot of "just one of things" going about lately, so I try to keep some perspective. Sorry to hear about your husband and his brothers-- this whole vaccine business really was a fiasco, wasn't it! All we can do is make the best of things-- not too hard in my case, as despite her problems my daughter is really quite lovely and I am delighted that I get to be her father. :-)