My marriage is an outer 6, inner 9. Sounds nice! We have done a lot of work on it and have more to go, but maybe our willingness to confront those issues head on is part of why it works. I find both numbers accurate, and would add that it's a relationship in which the critical factor is that both partners support one another's pursuit of the individual goals that matter most to them, even if they're not shared.
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Date: 2022-02-03 09:28 pm (UTC)